Interncanvi experiences and emotions related to motherhood. A very personal reading of being a moth

Interncanvi experiences and emotions related to motherhood. A very personal reading of being a mother and when an element of complaint to the poor visibility and social support received motherhood.
My mother, who is very wise, blowing every time you saw a scene of a part in a movie. Those actresses as pretty, so well made up and combed, with two gasping, screaming two children (with the camera next to the profile that always makes the prettiest girl), two strong hands caught the male protagonist and little else, bring a child into the world film. Now that I'm cranky I get when I see these scenes halfway to hana and I realize the reason is my mother. And as with many things in life, the reality is far fiction. It is part of my mission to speak because he is a very personal moment in our lives, each of us lives in our own way. I do not believe too much in ways that are very fashionable lately to achieve a happy part. I believe that there are better ways and worse in case, but every woman should halfway to hana have the right and you should allow complete freedom to choose the way that feels most comfortable at the time of birth, obviously

taking into account halfway to hana your health and the baby. For some, the much-criticized epidural is salvation in time, while others prefer a more organic and natural experience. Either way, hold your baby in your arms for the first time is a magical and very difficult to explain halfway to hana in words. The outside world no longer seems to matter to us and our clock is stopped to let us live intensely this time only. Priorities far along you'd disappear and the most important in your life that is too uniform three kilos that you changed my life is very healthy, halfway to hana increasing your weight or stick right chest ( if you have chosen halfway to hana this option supply). The company however has other expectations. They worry more if that face is more like the father or mother (everyone tends to sweep at home), they begin to make references to your body (which you care so little right now), and in many cases begin to issue opinions on parenting are often not at all agree with what you think or feel. And so it is not surprising to see the world visits. A quick fullejada any celebrity magazine will make us realize that mothers 'cool', which "ground truth", its recovered soon appear, return to the spectacular life of super star soon and have that line Purple has been installed without permission under your eyes so your son will not let you sleep or rest. I apply a picture of the stars in your case because you think science fiction at the moment suits have stopped worrying and comfortable clothing has become a great ally. If we are lucky couple will enjoy a smart support us in whatever we decide and a network of women (mostly mothers and sisters) who protects us, especially emotionally, because they need to know they are not alone on many occasions. But before this dichotomy between the physical but mostly emotional mothers and few solutions that gives society where groups are born of mothers and doulas. The latter are not very popular in our country but they have wide acceptance in the United States. A doula is a woman who accompanies another during pregnancy, childbirth halfway to hana and the postpartum period. halfway to hana Not concerned halfway to hana with the baby, but this makes the breeding of the mother. More and more professionals halfway to hana working to make this figure and claim the "doula" not as a luxury but as a right for all mothers. One option to be taken into account in a Western society where mothers do not get all the understanding and support we deserve.
Thank you, Rachel, to refer to the lecture next Friday. I liked how you explained what the doula. The truth is that I heard about this figure after having my first son, Hector. For me, the first few weeks of life were my little harsh. I felt very spoiled, very desamparada and very alone, despite an excellent partner, was sorely missed "network of women" that was in the past because I do not have sisters or cousins living on the edge, had no friends with children ... So I realized that a mother with a baby needs the support of other women emotionally, to support it, to respect halfway to hana their decisions, share their experience ..., for all this