One of my last days of work all came agitated, excited. - R. married! hana to So what? You did not

Travel, after all did not start at the moment when we go on the road, and does not end when we got to the finish line. In fact, begins much earlier and virtually never ends, because the memory tape rolls in on us, even though it has long since not physically move from the spot. After all, there are such things as travel and infection is a type of disease, in fact, an incurable (Ryszard Kapuscinski).
One of my last days of work all came agitated, excited. - R. married! hana to So what? You did not know before? How come no one knew he had it in the plans, and suddenly today it is no longer a married man? Even sisters than said that it intends hana to to formalize their relationship? Well, it's not that simple. In Roma (or at least in the Kosovo Roma) compounds are terribly confusing thing. First, as my boss puts it: "Do not choose a partner, just do not choose." Who chooses? Well, of course, beloved, always knowing best - parents. That is why I was here witnessed many tragedies teenage love, which, unlike in our Polish country popłakiwały, because this a owaj they did not want to, but because they were not accepted by his father. Teenage tragedies go, but one of my friends said bluntly: "arranged marriage is something to what you are agreeing to please his mother and father, but never, but never have it in the internal agreement." The man who said this is, of course, husband and father. And his wife does not love, or even not particularly like, but he had no choice. The choice is all in all. And R is the best proof. That's why no one knew about this marriage. One day I just "grabbed" his girlfriend from the family home and took to each other (do not be surprised hana to so much the idea of ​​kidnapping, when I spoke with a friend from another village and R. mentioned about marriage, it immediately was asked, "But a normal wedding, or kidnapping ? "). From what I was told later, it was associated with an almost regular fight between the families, but ended a normal hana to wedding. Marriage of two loving people, which in some families is possible. But as usual - it all depends on what the parents think about it. R. Parents like the bride and immediately prepared a modest hana to ceremony, so all ended well. Happy young couple, they would have worked out! I have heard many stories, even about a girl who met her future husband on their wedding day, because this was not interested in learning (normally

hana to so bad it is not, though marriages

are arranged, but before the wedding is to be arranged a few dates), about a girl whose parents agreed to the marriage of his beloved after about almost got killed, about a girl whose potential in-law did not agree to the marriage of his son, because he felt like a potential bride ... All this is sad and sometimes rejecting. It is a world where you still buy a bride (the groom has to pay the girl's family at least a few thousand euros), which throws a lot of girls after leaving school and getting married only deal with the house, which if you're not a virgin, is wasted you are likely to respect and her husband, in which 14 years seems an appropriate time for it to leave home and start a new family. Fortunately, this is changing. hana to At the moment it is not obvious, there are discussions, young girls do not always want to have a standard to live life to the dismay of his wife and parents have the ideas, hana to such as the study of marriage and wait at least until the age of majority. R. charming girl is 18 years old. With all my heart I wish them luck.
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